Dereliction of Duties
I met the nicest criminal today. He wore a bright green and white horizontal striped polo shirt—not a black hoody like a normal criminal would. I’m pretty sure he wasn’t a meth addict. Just a guy in his early 30’s, who ate real well, with his hair pulled back in a pony-tail.
I was at work, rushing to meet Ursula for lunch, but first I needed to mail a card. The fastest way for me to get to the mailroom is to cut through the break-room from the outside of the building to the inner hallway.
I swung the door open to the break-room, walked past the Pepsi machine, noting out of the corner of my eye a guy standing very close to the side of the machine. I thought it was odd—maybe he was loading it with bottles of soda? Even in that quick glimpse though, I knew he wasn’t wearing a uniform and thought it strange.
As I headed to the interior break-room door, I saw it was closed. It was never closed. I knew something was up for sure. “Shit,” I thought. “I don’t want to know what creepy stuff’s going on. I just want my lunch. I’m starving.” I almost walked out of the room, feigning ignorance. But, I thought that would be irresponsible, so I turned around to look at him.
He was hugged up tight against the vending machine. At first I thought he might be humping it, but then I saw the crow bar in his hands. He was prying open the seam near where the contraption sucks in the dollar bills. Hmm. Did the beast eat his money? No, no, Cathy! People don’t carry around crow bars when they buy soda!
Then I understood. He looked at me apologetically like he had just cut me off in traffic and felt really, really bad. He snatched a dollar bill out of the machine. He looked at me again, then back to his little gold mine to grab another. After he had a few bills accumulated, he shoved them into his shirt.
Why isn’t he running out the door? He could have escaped without me even getting a good look at him. Damn. Why is he forcing me to confront him? I don’t want to. He should be running out the door. What sort of criminal is he anyway for God’s sake?
“What the hell are you doing?” I finally say, trying to sound intimidating. But really, I sound as casual as if I’d asked the barista at Starbucks, “Can I get a tall two pump white chocolate mocha, please?”
“Sorry,” he replies. He makes no move though—just keeps filling his shirt with dollar bills, now one at time.
This time, I decide, I’m going to sound stern: “I think you better get out of here,” I say. But instead the words come out like I’m his accomplice. More like: “Hurry, Dude! Get outta here before someone really mean walks through that door and you’re busted for real!”
“Okay,” he pleads. “Sorry. I’m sorry.” He says “Okay,” but he’s not moving. Instead he looks at me as if I just caught him taking a piss in the trash can and he was doing his best to hurry even though he was mid-stream.
I’m still perplexed by the apology: Sorry for what? “Sorry I’m interrupting your lunch when it’s 47 minutes past the time you normally eat.” Or maybe, “Sorry for stealing, but I only need three more dollars before I have enough to buy my dog a pretty collar with rhinestones. Bear with me here.”
Admittedly, I didn’t know what I was going to do next if he didn’t leave. He was being so polite. Who was I to be rude? Finally, satisfied he’d held me at bay longer than I could stand, or maybe satisfied he could now buy his dog a pretty collar, he walks to the door. But, instead of just walking out and not looking back, he is looking back. At me.
It was a weird moment, but the cop’s daughter in me said, “Quick, memorize his face and clothes!” So, I did. I took it all in. Every detail. Possibly Hispanic, hasn’t shaved, but isn’t that hairy anyway, could lose a few pounds, and wearing a really ugly shirt. Done.
At last he leaves. I open the other door to the hall. I don’t want to call the cops. I’ll be late. And I told Ursula to meet me at the car and I won’t be at my car because I’m here, dealing with shit I don’t want to be dealing with. Why bother? I don’t care about the pop machine. That shittin’ machine takes a buck-fifty from my pocket every time I buy a soda. A rip off! Let him have the money—the soda monster deserves being robbed in return.
But then our building administrator’s voice is in my head: “You what? You didn’t call the police?”
Okay, okay. While I’m looking around for a phone, I remember I have my cell phone. But, do I have campus 911 number programed in my phone? I check. Yes, I do, because I’m a former cop’s daughter and these are the things you do to be prepared—you know, just in case.
I dial and walk outside to see if I can see the guy. Nope, he’s gone. Oh, well. Time to get lunch. I’m beyond starving now.
I look around for Ursula, afraid I’m going to miss her.
The dispatcher in my ear is very serious: Where is he now? Which way did he go? What did he look like? I’m sending an officer right now.
“Look,” I say, “I’m on my way off-campus. I have to meet someone. Can you just have the cop meet me in an hour?”
“Oh, no. You’re the witness. You have to stay to talk to the officer.” I just roll my eyes.
Now I’m looking out for Ursula more than I am the courteous thief.
The cop comes. He says he has other cops looking for the guy. I explain what happened. We laugh because the guy was so sorry. Then I spot Ursula walking out and I open the door and scream, “Ursula! I’m in here!” She comes in and when I tell her what happened she laughs, too, but really Ursula laughs at everything. I love that.
I describe the guy to the cop like a good witness, over and over. No, he didn’t have a Spanish accent even though he looked Hispanic. No, I didn’t really notice his pants. Yes, he was really sorry. Super polite guy. Yeah, real nice.
I write down everything about myself on a card for him. “Do you really need my social security number?” I ask?
“No,” he says, “Just your work information is fine…and your driver’s license info. Oh, and your phone numbers.”
The irony doesn’t escape me that I’m the one being treated like a criminal here. That dude is off buying his dog collar and now it’s 72 minutes past my lunch time, and I’m impatient and bitchy and really fucking hungry.
“Can I leave now,” I ask?
“I’m running this all through my head trying to see if I got everything—trying to decide just that,” he says, flipping through the pages of his nifty little notebook full of crime-fighting details.
I grab my stuff. I’m headed to the door nodding to Ursula to follow me out. “Okay?” I ask.
“Sure. You can go.”
Later, back from lunch, I told a co-worker what happened. He said, “I would have told him to put all the money on the table and if he didn’t do it I would have tackled him!”
“Really?” I was puzzled. “Over $10 from the Pepsi machine?”
My dad’s response was similar: “See, Cathy, if you had your concealed weapons permit, you could have pulled your pistol from your purse and held him at gun point until the police got there.”
After hearing everyone else’s version of how things should have gone down, I could see how neither my polite new friend, nor I, acted the way we should have. He wasn’t a typical psychopath and I’m no Charlie’s Angel. But so what? I think in the end he and I did just fine. After all, he just wanted a few bucks, and I… Well, I just wanted to eat my lunch.
Love, love, love! Had me laughing out loud 3 times…at least! Awesome, am gonna have to share it!
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CATHY!!! If I was the guy, I would have taken the coins out to get the soda cans one by one, and then get the coins out again ^^
People want to use their skills… Unfortunately for that guy the only skill he know about is to crow bar the coins.
For personal preference, I would have told the guy that I would call 911 if he did not stop, but then I would think he would definitely stop if I warned him so. In the process, I would just save a few bucks for the pop machine…
But you are different. You made eye contact and probed the criminal. And I agree with your choice of calling 911. He was doing a small crime, but is becoming shameless, relentless and even a little pissed when confronted. The last turn-around look showed he was fighting back — at what and why? I don’t think even he himself understood. When he would finally understand, it might already be too late.
I like your depiction as if he was caught pissing. It is very dangerous. If he thinks this happens a lot — always pissing and always being watched as if he was pissing, he would go nuts. Loosing all possible sense of shame to everyone, he may pull out something bigger than pissing in the future, and maybe just to see how everyone is doing. That’s when he would be dimmed inappropriate in the society for real…
Good job, and hey, by the way, that was the appropriate action when seeing someone pissing in public 🙂
Thank you, Chen Mi…you’re the best brother…
… I wouldn’t doubt at all if he was a meth addict or just looking for enough to get a bag of dope; you probably disrupted his lifestyle enough to make him want to leave. Otherwise he would have continued to collect money until he felt satisfied. What other situations like this happen with a clean cut guy using a crowbar on his confronting female, or worse? Most often these guys are cowards, but If they see the opportunity, they’ll take it.
If you did have a gun, and didn’t use it immediately but I can relate to your experience. You probably did exactly as you should because who knows, he also could have attempted to harm you. Theft is a lifestyle. I saw such opportunists do their business as you described; as non-nonchalantly do they use the crowbar to pry it open as if they were actually getting a Coca-Cola from the machine. I worked as a low income Property Manager near Federal and Alameda for a couple of years. I remember once walking out of my office in an alley to see this guy rummaging around the front seat of my car. I had left the passenger door open because I was moving items in and out of the place. He looked up and saw me, frozen for a second, like a raccoon does when you are walking up to the dumpster to put trash in it. I ended up “tackling” the 5’6″ guy as he was attempting to leave with my spackling knife in his hand. This however, didn’t stop him from producing a slash-mark on my shin with this knife as he was going down. I let him get up and go after he released my 2.00 item. I did call the cops and they rounded him up about a hundred yards away at the nearby bus stop; squatting and drinking a 40oz. He was amongst his other buddies whom I often discovered pissing AND defecating outside in the areas around my project as if they were doing so in any bathroom. I was encouraged by the DPD to press charges and, although reluctant, did so because this guy needed to be held accountable.
Wow, Matthew…crazy people in this world!
Did you get that CCW yet? What is the holdup? I said I would pay for it!
Working on it, Dad! Promise!!